Fakes and Flakes on Xhamster
In a previous blog I mentioned hating fakes. Well I am discovering that this website will NEVER be rid of them. Once again I "meet" some people here and while they offer friendship that lack sharing of themselves. It always seems to be one sided. There is a difference between friending someone from another country or state or even from a part of the state you are in and there is no possibility of meeting up in person. So chatting is not abundant nor really a necessity unless you are into constant chatting online. By the way, while I am not against chatting occasionally, I am NOT into doing sex chats with people from other countries or states, etc. It just becomes another reminder that I am not having sex in person.
Anyway, when someone comes along from your area and the potential of meeting up in person has genuine possibility, you tend to friend that person with the hopes that any chatting will lead to meeting. What you don't expect is when that person turns into a serious recluse and never wants to share anything about themselves and keeps putting off and putting off but then turns around and says they like persistence in people. What the fuck. This site isn't for playing games and bullshit others and pretty much lying. It's about sharing and meeting others with the same interests as you.
It's easy to stay clear of those people sending friend requests just because they are friend collectors. For example, if you have been on this site for 5 months but have 5,000+ friends and very little or no content in your profile then you ARE a friend collector and I have no time for people like that. It's also the same for people in other countries. When there is absolutely NO chance of ever meeting up in my lifetime yet you want endless chats acting as if there is, realism sets in and then it becomes a waste of everyone's time.
Why is it so hard to simply meet people in your own area with the same interests that WANT to follow through on what their profile says they are SEEKING?? If your profile says your are SEEKING someone, then fucking seek them!!!! Don't play games. Don't act like your the porn king of the world and then flake out. Everybody's schedule doesn't isn't sync up. Sometimes you have to plan meetings to get the best enjoyment possible. If you just want quick sex go get a hooker. If you want enjoyable sex that can last a few hours with the possibility of it reoccurring then people need to realize it is not a "wham, bam, thank you ma'am" situation unless you BOTH want that. There is nothing wrong with that IF BOTH of you can make that happen. If one has to schedule the meeting and that isn't good enough for you, then maybe you weren't really looking for what you said you were seeking after all. Hell even Craigslist ad hook ups don't happen as easily as some think. Ever read those ads and see people talking about the fakes responding to ads there?
The reason for this blog is because of connecting with two separate people here. One a guy another claiming to be Trans/CD. The guy, young, was all about what he could do with me and make me feel good, blah blah blah, but when I had to schedule our meeting up a week from the chat or not wanting to drive all the way to another location at his friend's place for the potential of of meeting both him and his friend instead of his friend coming to HIS place which would be closer to me, he suddenly got quiet and I never heard from him in over a week. FLAKED OUT!!!
Met a person claiming to be Trans/CD a couple weeks ago. She has been on Xhamster for years and not even ONE picture of herself is posted. In chats she talks about being shy and a shrinking violet type and submissive and yet like the persistence of people "for the chase" kind of situation, she gets all mad when I decide to act upon the more dominant scenario to her submissive side and suddenly doesn't like my tone and unfriends me. Talk about being both e a FAKE and FLAKE!!!
So from now on, I am going to be seriously more selective as to who I accept friend requests from and if you are in my area, basically an hour in any direction from me, and you want to meet up then YOU will have to be forthcoming with your information and pictures. All mine are right here on my profile for people to see. If you can't provide yours to me, then don't waste my fucking time!!!!!
Anyway, when someone comes along from your area and the potential of meeting up in person has genuine possibility, you tend to friend that person with the hopes that any chatting will lead to meeting. What you don't expect is when that person turns into a serious recluse and never wants to share anything about themselves and keeps putting off and putting off but then turns around and says they like persistence in people. What the fuck. This site isn't for playing games and bullshit others and pretty much lying. It's about sharing and meeting others with the same interests as you.
It's easy to stay clear of those people sending friend requests just because they are friend collectors. For example, if you have been on this site for 5 months but have 5,000+ friends and very little or no content in your profile then you ARE a friend collector and I have no time for people like that. It's also the same for people in other countries. When there is absolutely NO chance of ever meeting up in my lifetime yet you want endless chats acting as if there is, realism sets in and then it becomes a waste of everyone's time.
Why is it so hard to simply meet people in your own area with the same interests that WANT to follow through on what their profile says they are SEEKING?? If your profile says your are SEEKING someone, then fucking seek them!!!! Don't play games. Don't act like your the porn king of the world and then flake out. Everybody's schedule doesn't isn't sync up. Sometimes you have to plan meetings to get the best enjoyment possible. If you just want quick sex go get a hooker. If you want enjoyable sex that can last a few hours with the possibility of it reoccurring then people need to realize it is not a "wham, bam, thank you ma'am" situation unless you BOTH want that. There is nothing wrong with that IF BOTH of you can make that happen. If one has to schedule the meeting and that isn't good enough for you, then maybe you weren't really looking for what you said you were seeking after all. Hell even Craigslist ad hook ups don't happen as easily as some think. Ever read those ads and see people talking about the fakes responding to ads there?
The reason for this blog is because of connecting with two separate people here. One a guy another claiming to be Trans/CD. The guy, young, was all about what he could do with me and make me feel good, blah blah blah, but when I had to schedule our meeting up a week from the chat or not wanting to drive all the way to another location at his friend's place for the potential of of meeting both him and his friend instead of his friend coming to HIS place which would be closer to me, he suddenly got quiet and I never heard from him in over a week. FLAKED OUT!!!
Met a person claiming to be Trans/CD a couple weeks ago. She has been on Xhamster for years and not even ONE picture of herself is posted. In chats she talks about being shy and a shrinking violet type and submissive and yet like the persistence of people "for the chase" kind of situation, she gets all mad when I decide to act upon the more dominant scenario to her submissive side and suddenly doesn't like my tone and unfriends me. Talk about being both e a FAKE and FLAKE!!!
So from now on, I am going to be seriously more selective as to who I accept friend requests from and if you are in my area, basically an hour in any direction from me, and you want to meet up then YOU will have to be forthcoming with your information and pictures. All mine are right here on my profile for people to see. If you can't provide yours to me, then don't waste my fucking time!!!!!
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